Ben Affleck

I never understood why a man would leave his own kids to take up living with a woman to raise her kids. It upsets me to see how his wife Jennifer stood by him through all his demons and he just gets up and leaves to shack up with some chick in NY. The new girl gets the new improved Ben while Jennifer is left raising her kids on her own. Something about this breakup haa turned me off with Ben Affleck. I don’t be watching his movies any time soon.


Hair extensions 

I did my child friend’s hair extensions today.  No glue or the other new techniques that pulls the hair out. I do it the old school sew in tracks. It lasts her about two months before she has to come in and redo them. She is one of the most confident people I know. Love her 🖤

2018 men’s hairstyles 

This is my nephew Emmanuel. I get a kick out of him. He calls me out and puts me in place, I love it coming from him. He’s twenty years old has been around me enough to know me more than I know myself. He had been going to another stylist because he says I don’t listen to him.. didn’t bother me..I’m glad he went..the stylist did  his hair pretty good. I don’t like to talk bad about other people’s work.  He came to me yesterday..I bleached his hair then applied the red. He was very happy with it. I did not get to blend his #fadecut like I wanted to since my client showed up and  I needed to start with her. He made an agreement to come at least once a month so that I could touch up his red again.. he was happy indeed. Here’s one of our typical conversations we had yesterday. 

Me: I look ugly today.  

Emmanuel: Ummm Hummm who you tellin..


Racism and skin color 

These are my sisters in faith. I want to show you how skin and looks has nothing to do with who or what you are. My friend Trish on the left with the blue eyes has black in her. He mother was biracial black and Irish and her father 100% German. She showed me pictures of her mother. Her mother definitely looked like a mixed woman.  Her hair gave it away big time. You could tell she could of used a realaxer or a press and curl. She was a littke darker than me. The point I’m making is this, people are so caught up in stirring racism hatred. Its the dumbest thing ever. You dont know what people are based on their looks. Judge people individually not by what the news stirs up. Instead of ridding the racism train talk to people get to know their background..let go of the baggage. Just let that mess go!

Love yourself 

Love yourself enough to take a break from users, freeloaders, indecisive mate potentials, toxix friends and haters.  You have no power to control anyone or any situation when you do things implode in your face. The only person you have control over us yourself.

Blac Chyna

I dont have time to watch tv..I get notidications on my cell when certain news pops up. Blac Chyna and Rob Kardashian were a topic of conversation at the salon yesterday.  The whole story is bizzar. She sends him a video of making out with some guy who was wearing Rob’s robe. She hangs around vulgar Amber Rose. She admitted to purposely getting pregnant to get revenge on her ex. She treated Rob like dirt on their reality show. Now she is a victim? She’s a user. Who’s to say she set him up so the could become popular like Kim Kardashian.  And why arent his sisters there to support him for anything? This is going to be a ugly situation. The one who suffers is tbe baby. Chyna hangs around a questionable group of people.  I could just see them smoking weed in her living room at 3am talking real loud eating Popeye’s chicken while baby Dream is crying in the back ground. 

Blac Chyna is NOT the kind of girl you get pregnant. You leave them at the club…. 

 The Best

You may not be where you want to be but it doesnt mean that you cant do what you need to do. Take the word try out of your vocabulary and just do what you can in your circumstances. No one is going to rescue you. You are responsible for your life.  You are the captain of your ship. Be the best that you can be and all else will follow. 
It’s 4am. I think I better go to bed now. I’ll talk you to all later..nite nite..😴😴😴 

Crazy people

A couple of weeks ago my client told me a crazy story..she laughed and said Evy dont blog this ..I wasn’t going to but heck I’m not saying any names😂..we were sharing  dating stories. She told me she dated a guy a long time ago who asked her to him run over him with her car. Say what! He went to visit her..some how they ended up in the garage talking. He laid on the floor and asked her to roll over him with her car. He had a fantasy about having tires roll over his body.  I’ve never heard of such a thing. I told her you better not ever contact him again!!  She showed me his picture, cute but nuttier than a bag of trail mix. What is wrong with people. ..its scary out there. Take your time getting to know someone you dont know how messed up they are. You dont want to end up in prison for the rest of your life for hurting someone in their sick fantasies.