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Beauty and the Beasts

This is my new client Daniela…I worked on her for 6 hours I did not finish her hair until 1:30 am last nite. She died her hair black with a box dye color. Box colors are the worse to get out of the hair. I understand why they have the box color memes….This was her first blonding session…I had to rebleach it 3 times…the black and red color she had did not want to come out. Please do not bleach your hair at home. You have to know what you are doing. I heard 6 hours of horror stories of Daniel’s life while I did her hair. I wish I would of recorded it. Her life has been a nightmare. She gave me the rights to blog about it and told me to share it here. I will try and keep it short ..Her mother is from Romania. I had no idea Romania was considered a third world country. Her mother was very poor they were lucky to sleep on pillows…Daniela’s father was a Mormon missionary the parents fell in love and he got Daniela’s mother pregnant…they move to the states and had 5 kids. The mother gets into a car accident killing two of her little ones. The father could never forgive her the mother and dumps her, the mother becomes a alcoholic and starts to verbally abuse Daniela (verbal abuse is more damaging than physical) Fast foward Daniela gets a scholarship and moves to California at 18 years of age from Washington but looses it all. When Daniela moved to California she was a beautiful blue yed barbie. She had no friends and innocently got involved with two new friends who introduced her to meth. She figured she could try it once and go on with her life. Nope. She got addicted and her life turned into darkness one of the friends turned nuts and rape her…she called her mother for help and her mother turned ice cold and told her she didn’t want to be bothered with her. Daniela was homeless at 18 living in cars getting beat by evil gangsters had her teeth knocked out..lost a baby from the beatings, she’s been jumped 4 times by fake female friends, she’s been in jail and sexually harassed by cops, she’s had her ribs broken. She told me she’s witnessed one gansgster possesed by demons after he shot up heroin. I believe it. She’s been spit on stabbed, choked, hit with guns. She’s only 29 but her face looks like shes 25 years older. You can see the hardness in her looks. She refused for me to show her face for this picture because of her missing teeth. She told me I was the first person in her life she’s ever told her life story to because people don’t listen. There is so much to her story but its too graphic for me to post. I don’t know when I will see her again. She can’t keep appointments she stood me up the first time and yesterday she showed up hours late. She is humble, generous, and witty. She’s a Beauty in a world of Beasts. I asked her what has she learned from her life experiences she said that evil exists, there is no loyalty and you have to learn to be little selfish because the more you give the more people will take advantage and use you. She’s not bitter she’s confident but she’s defitnely in a world of evil association. She’s driving around in a range rover. Her boyfriend pays for her rent even though he’s locked up somewhere in another state. I can only hope that one day she’s able to break the chain and leave the dirty women beater cholos behind. Any man that breaks a lady’s ribs is not a man but a demon possesed BEAST. A sissy if you ask me. Life is a journey from the choices we make….we all have the free will to make right and wrong choices…but if you get hooked on drugs it’s almost impossible to make a right choice. Out of everything she told me the most hurtful thing she told me how her parents disowned her at 18. They never looked for her, never cared that she was homeless, They even changed their phone numbers so she couldn’t contact them. You know what’s crazy about all of this Daniela’s mother owns her own hair salon in Ohio now with her new boyfriend. She abandoned all of the rest of her living kids when they turned 18 one of them being handicapped. Hairstylists are known for caring for people. How can you sit there and be kind and loving to your clients and treat your children so bad???? Don’t get me started on Daniela’s father he’s a longshoreman, her parents are getting paid boo hoo bucks $$$ why can’t they set her up take her to rehab?..Where is the natural affection? Where is the love? How can her mother call herself a human? Or a hairstylist? I’m glad she lives in Ohio that’s a woman I never want to meet. She abandoned her 18 year old handicap son to live alone in his car? What is wrong with people??!!! I don’t understand

women or men who throw away their kids for a new lover…

Ps) Daniela dyed her beautiful blond hair black because all her boyfriends cheated on her with black hair girls.😐

Tales of the chair stories. People confess more to me than they do their therapists or preachers…this is why I’m up till 3am…I’m a preacher a therapist and the coolest stylists your ever meetπŸ˜‰β€…..Hope she comes back I still need to finish my platinun blonding sessions on her.

Fitness model

My cousin’s wife is a fitness model. She’s from Romania. I’m proud to say that my family is so diversed from Puerto Ricans to Columbians Mexicans, Italians…I can’t wait to be in paradise where race and skin color will be a thing of the pass..where we can all sit together in Unity with out unsults and prejudice..that is why I love my faith so much, we welcome ALL colors…while the world is killing each other over race we are hugging and kissing each other in the kingdom hall..we everything from Africans to Philippinos, to Croatians. We have it all😍😍…

My cousin’s wife looks amazing!..As I ponder what kind of doughnut I want todayπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Parents

Whether you are a real or step parent please stop manipulating situations with your kids. People tell me you dont undetstand what it is to be a parent because you dont have kids. First of all you dont have to be a parent to see the the damage the parents do to their Children number one and number two I helped raise my lil sister when my mother had to work 2 or 3 jobs to keep keep a household. I took care of her to the point the people thought she was my kid because I was always with her. There is nothing more that hurts me to see kids or teens stuck in a abusive home with a wicked jealous parents. I’ve heard hundreds of stories on my styling chair I’ve lost count, If you have the tendency to be envious or jealous of someone else’s kids then please don’t marry someone with kids marry or date someone with zero children. Stepmothers stop going through your stepdaughter’s cell phones, diaries, and closets looking for any kind of forensic files to snitch on them. Stop trying to compete with a child or teen it’s ugly when you do. The love a father has for his daughter is NOT the same kind of love he has for you it’s not romantic love so there is no need to compete or feel threatened. You are the ADULT NOT the KID or TEEN. Real parents STOP being cunning by making your own kids fight with each other. Stop picking up the phone by calling one son and talking real bad about his sisters vice versa then when you cause division, hurt and anger between them act surprise when they don’t get together for the holidays. Step fathers stop pretending you like your wife’s kid in front of people then punch them in the chest when no one is looking. Stop the verbal abuse it’s worse than the punches. Mothers stop sidding with creepy perverts over your kids. Don’t stay with a molester because you are afraid to be single. It kills me to hear that mothers put their teens out the house when the teen confesses about abuse. Are you that insecure and needy? I mean seriously are you that sick? Your identity should not be based on who you are shacked up with. Your identity should be on your character and virtues your work ethics morals and how well you take care of you kids. To all the GOOD parents step or real I give you much respect for doing one of the hardest jobs in the world and to the rest of you who are cunning and mean to your kids and step seek professional help…get a hold of yourself and stop creating a dark path for the next generation. How we are as adults has everything to do with our upbringing. If you are the envious or jealous type of person get a cat or a dog or marry someone who’s kids no longer live with them whatever you do do it love or don’t do it at all.

Cocobrown

I’m so happy for them!! I always knew he was going to marry a unexpected girl. Straight out of Compton to the palace!! This love story doesn’t get any better than this. I wish them all the best ❀