Urgent Care

I had to cancel clients today do to a killer earache I’ve had for two days. I noticed since I’ve been on all kinds of medication I feel worse. My client who.is a nurse told me that high blood pressure medication can cause chest pains which I have ….I also remember her saying something about liquid in the lungs that can travel to the ears. Again I don’t remember her exact words but what she said makes sense or I could just have a infection for no reason.  Who knows?
I was fillling the paper work here at Urgent Care and it asked me what is my race and ethnicity.  In one of the questions I asked why? Does it make a difference what I am? My ear hurts bad I need help. I’m in pain hungry and irritable and I’m  stressin that I could not see my clients today. Thank goodness I have an awsome clientele who is loving and amazing ..I can’t wait to feel better soon  so that I can get my hands on their heads😍
#venting

Think about this

Many people are secret racists some just are bold and more upfront about it. I don’t understand it. I was raised in middle class all black neighborhood with the crips. Black girls were very mean to me growing up. They would call me a wetback. My back wasnt wet I was born in new Jersey and never heard that term before. In high-school my Latino friends would get irritated if I hung out with the blacks vice versa. My mother told me this story of when I was a baby and she took me to the beach and another little white baby wanted to play with me. The mother grabbed her baby so fast as if she didn’t want my skin to rub off on her baby. I’ve been burned and hurt by MANY races. My question is this do I hate them all because if what they did to me? No! I would have to move to the mountains and hide and become a hermit. People hurt people out of ignorance and evil hearts. Another thing many families have half brothers or Sisters of a different races. You can’t even tell they are related.  Siblings  move to other countries and states  and marry out of their race, which means that we  have family around the world. When you get a blood transfusion do you ask the doctor if the blood was donated by a black, Japanese or a white? It doesn’t matter to you right because you are so desperate to to live another 5 years.  Think about this, life is very stressful, the struggle is real. Why add anxiety about  not liking someone from another country? Why carry that baggage? I do believe there is a lot of truths in stereo types but I’ve also learned to give each individual the benefit of the doubt. I wouldn’t be a diversed hairstylist if I my mother taught me to hate. My clientel is so diversed I love it!! I can do a relaxer on one client and bleach the next one. You know the one thing my clients and I talk about?  We all talk about is the weather, celebrities, family drama, work etc. At the end of the day humans have more things in common but we tend to dwell on our 2% differences. That is where ignorance, hate, torture and killings come from. Let go of the baggage. Pray for your enemies forgive and move on. We are all brothers and sisters. Expand your horizons and eat some fried bananas, Thai and Korea food. You don’t know what you’re missing😊

How can you go to church and claim to love a God you can’t see if you hate his children that you can see?  We are made in his image meaning we have the emotions that he has. Love, jealousy, empathy etc. 
Matthew 22:39 “Your must love your neighbor as yourself.”
Let go of that negative baggage!!  The only bag you should be carrying on your back is a Louis Vuitton 😍😂👜👛🤗😘

Michael

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This is Michael we went to beauty college at Flavios together  in Gardena 29 years ago. I have a special spot in my heart for him. I stopped by the JC  Penneys salon  just now to say hello to my ol coworkers. I worked  at JC Pennys for a short time. Michael and I were just reminiscing our beauty  college  days. I’m sure our teachers are sleeping in death. We had a Japanese  teacher named Miss Amy..who was like 5ft tall. She use to wear big plat form shoes a burnt looking afro perm and would color her hair a brassy orange color with these spider fake lookin eyelashes. She looked like a cartoon. Mrs Brown was older. She use to always tell me over and over again  if your not going to do it right don’t it at all. Profound words of wisdom. I use be so impatient  and keep checking my perm rods right after I saturated the hair with the nasty smelling perm solution.  Can’t  they make those things smell better! LOL…Michael went straight from beauty  college  to JC Pennys. It’s the one and only salon he’s ever worked  at. He’s set  with a good retirement plan and benefits when he leaves. I on the other hand have worked in 9 different  hair salons. Was young  and not too stable.  I could never find the perfect salon that catered to my diversed clientele.  The black salons would be mean  to my white and Hispanic clients. The Hispanic  salons weren’t too friendly to my black and white clients. The white salon  owner named Debra would make my black clients pay first. It was a hot mess! I finally ended in a Chinese  hair salon. No drama  no racial issues just straight up buisness  just like I like it. May the salon owner treats  ALL my clients equal. I’m blessed to have found the perfect spot for me. I wish the whole world would be like  nice like May💛

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Unless it’s WordPress 😍 seriously  be careful don’t do it. Think very hard who you are going to vent to its  better not to say too much,  talking to the wrong person  can backfire. 1) They can bring up the conversation in front of others at the wrong place in front of others 2) You will forget what you vented about and they wont. They will resent the person you vented about after you’ve already made the peace with the one you vented about. 3) You don’t want to come off as a Debbie Downer 4) Don’t vent about a guy you like. It will draw attention to him and next thing you know
your friend is super extra  friendly to him. 5) Some people really don’t care about you. They just want to be nosy. 6) Don’t always  trust old ladies. Some aren’t as innocent as they look. They still have feelings and fall for guys 30 years younger than them and will  ruin your  reputation so he won’t get a chance to get to know you. 7) Not all coworkers are cool whatever you tell them in confidence  they will rat you out to your boss if it means your going to get a raise or a higher  position. 8) Some people are like crabs..they will pull you down when the water gets hot.  9) Get a handful of trusted friends and even better if they live out of state. 10) Don’t ask nosy personal questions. The less you know the better.

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